Blue and Gold

Ethan had his first Blue and Gold dinner for cub scouts tonight. He was mad when I told him that the other kids and I were going too, then Daddy showed up and we went as a family and Ethan was ok with that then. We got there and picked a table to sit at, and when Ethan’s friend Jacob arrived he came over to tell Ethan that he looks great in his uniform. We had dinner, and then they started passing out awards for the boys achievements. The very first boy called was Ethan. He had earned his bobcat. So Ethan went up there to claim that, then they asked for Ethan’s mother to come up. I was NOT expecting that. I was handed a pin and I was like what do I do with this? Sis Ball happened to be sitting at a table nearby and said it was for me, and that Ethan was supposed to pin it on me. Talk about being totally embarrassed. I am not one that likes being in the spotlight. Especially when I have no idea what I’m supposed to be doing there. I handed Ethan the pin and told him to pin it on my shirt and he just looked at me like “what?” But he pressed it to my shirt and I finished pinning it on for him.

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So here I am after being pinned looking embarrassed, but glad that that was over.

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And here’s Ethan with his new patch for his uniform, now I get to figure out where it goes and put it on. (Yes Ethan did go up in front of everyone with food on his face….) And now it’s time to start working with him on some of his wolf requirements. 🙂

SEP’s

Tonight we had SEP’s with Ethan’s and Tyra teachers. Ethan’s was first, he’s doing very well in his reading and in his math. Reading at this point in the second grade year the kids are supposed to be reading at a DRA level 24 and Ethan is reading at a level 28 (which is where he’s supposed to be by the end of the year). Mrs Washburn really had no problems to report and feels he is doing really well.

Tyra on the other hand….At this point of the year in first grade they are supposed to be reading at a DRA level 10. Tyra, when her teacher assessed her is at a level THREE! Mrs Jaque had  her tested for placement in a remedial reading program, but Tyra’s placement was turned down because (according to whoever assessed her) she was reading just fine and scored to high to need a reading remedial program. So now we are wondering if Tyra is faking her reading difficulties or WHAT? I know she has a focus problem. She’s so social that she’s always paying more attention to what’s going on around her than the words on the page. She also has internal focus issues. I can control what’s going on around her when she’s at home (send the other kiddos outside or down the hall) but I can’t control what’s going on in her head. She will just be going along reading the book in front of her then all of a sudden she will stop and throw out some RANDOM comment. I can’t really control what’s going on inside her head to help her focus more. She also seems to have difficulties remembering difference between a ‘d’ and a ‘b’, and she confuses ‘p’ with ‘q’. It’s also very obvious when she is reading when she is actually trying, and when she’s just guessing at the words. I get really annoyed when she is just guessing because I feel like she’s just wasting her time and mine. I have made an appointment with the eye doctor next week to rule out any vision problems contributing to her reading difficulties, so we’ll see how that goes.

According to Mrs Jaque, she’s doing pretty well in math, but when I sit down to do math homework, she has NO CLUE how to do it. I talked to Mrs Jaque about that, but the two math activities that I mentioned that we had done the week before, were things that she hadn’t actually taught in class yet. Somehow she got behind the other first grade classes in math and she’s trying to get her class caught back up. So we’ll see if that’s part of the difficulties I was seeing at home. In short, Ethan’s doing GREAT, and I really worry about Tyra.

The party that followed…

Following the baptism, some of our guests came over for lunch. We had a great time hanging out with everybody. Ethan was very happy that his friend Jacob could be over for a bit too.

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The kids had a great time playing with legos and the food was yummy. We decided to keep it simple and had rolls with deli meats and cheeses to make sandwiches. Then we had a few bags of chips, a veggie platter, and jello.

Some of the old people took a nap:
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After awhile we sang ‘Happy Birthday’ to Ethan and had birthday cake.

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And after cake Ethan got to open his presents. It’s been a very busy, exciting day.

PS: As usual there are more pictures in the photo gallery. 🙂

Ethan’s Baptism!

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Today was Ethan’s big BIG day! The day of his baptism, and his first step back to our Heavenly Father’s presence. Ethan has been going back and forth about whether he wanted to be baptized or not. His main fear being that he didn’t want to go all the way under water. But he finally made up his mind to do it.

The day was super crazy. We spent all morning getting ready, and we got to the stake center about 30-40 minutes early. Ethan’s baptism was scheduled to be the last one of the day, and we were to be in the chapel. There was another group in there when we got there so we just hung out for a bit in the foyer trying to keep the kids reverent (which wasn’t happening) so we were trying to keep them at least quiet enough that they wouldn’t bug the other groups in the church, and Liesl took tons of pictures.

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Ethan with his two grandma’s.

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Dinah and Kyle making funny faces.

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And here’s our family, minus Chloe (who happened to be napping in auntie Tiffany’s arms).

Despite most people being there so early, we ended up starting rather late. Liesl and Laurel went off to another room to practice playing and leading the music together. Liesl ended up saying that she didn’t even know the “Baptism” song let alone know how to play it, and Karen didn’t have her glasses that she needs for reading music with her so she didn’t feel confident enough to take over for that song. So we ended up asking Sister Graham to play that one for us. We were waiting for Debby and Jeff to arrive, and when we called to find out where they were, they were barely in American Fork, so we decided to get started without them.

We started out by singing “America the Beautiful”, which was Ethan’s pick. I showed him all the other songs that seemed to relate to baptism and he was still set on having “America the Beautiful” as the opening song. 🙂 Then Auntie Tiffany said the opening prayer. Then mom gave the talk on baptism, which was her first talk ever! And her eye sight must be going on her, because the notes that she had typed up for her talk she had in rather large font and she was still having difficulty seeing them. Then we went down the hall to the room with the font in it. The little kids all got down in the front. There was pretty much just our kids, and their cousins and Ethan’s best friend Jacob, so they were able to all sit in one straight line next to the glass. When Kyle took Ethan down into the font, I remember Dinah and some of the other kids just getting the giggles. It made me giggle too, which I know doesn’t seem very reverent. But it made me think of the day that my family was sealed in the temple, and the ladies in the temple nursery told us that we must not laugh when we saw our parents all dressed up in their temple clothes. But when we all got into the sealing room, and they arranged each one of us into our positions around the altar, when it was David’s turn he plopped his arm down on the altar like he was getting ready to arm wrestle the person on the other side. Ha! That sounds really bad, but he had a broken arm and it was in a cast and that was just the way his arm happened to go down, so I remember at that point a couple of us started laughing. Then everybody was laughing. So when the kids were giggling with the excitement of Ethan being in the water, that’s what I had thought of.

Kyle had to lower Ethan into the water twice. The first time, Ethan hadn’t bent his knees enough so his feet started going up and his top half didn’t go all the way under. The second time he went all the way under but it appeared that his bangs were floating a bit, although when he came up his bangs were all wet. So they must have gone under, if just barely.

While Kyle and Ethan dried off and dressed, everyone moved back into the chapel and Liesl played some hymns. And when Kyle and Ethan came back Roine gave a talk on the Holy Ghost, and then Kyle confirmed Ethan a member of the church and gave him the gift of the Holy Ghost.

Then Bishop Hunt got up to say a few things, and when he was done he invited Sister Graham to say a few things (since she was there representing the primary presidency), and then he asked that I come up and bear my testimony. My eyes must have nearly popped out of my head judging by looks on Laurel’s and Liesl’s faces up on the stand, when they heard that and looked at me. But I got up there and said a few things, and I was terrified, so I didn’t say a lot. 🙂

Finally we sang “Baptism” from the Children’s songbook, and Granny gave the closing prayer.