Swine Flu Outbreak!

Okay, now that I have your attention… nobody in the family has the swine flu.  Although after the way we were treated tonight, it seemed as if people suspected it.

Rebecca had her normal checkup for the pregnancy (it’s hard to believe she’s at 32 weeks already! Less than two months before The Tiebreaker is born!), and after that, we took Jeremy in to his normal pediatrician.  Now, Jeremy has been very lethargic this past week, with a fever reaching up to 104.9 degrees at some points.  We’ve been concerned about it, but in the past, if we ever call the doctors about the fever, they tell us to give it a few days, and it eventually goes away.  Sometimes, if they find an ear infection, they’ll give us antibiotics for the kids to take, but normally it seems like a trip to the doctor is a waste of time.

Tonight, I was wishing for that waste of time.  Last night, I tried calling the after-hours doctor about Jeremy’s fever, and left a message which the answering machine said someone would get back to me about, but nobody called me back.  Today, Rebecca called and got their two hour lunch message, so after her appointment, I called and was told to bring him in right away.

We took Jeremy in to see his doctor, arriving at 4:45, and after the routine checks of weight (33.4 pounds. Go my boy!) and temperature (99.4 degrees, pretty decent considering we gave him Ibuprofin earlier today), the Doctor came in, asked a few questions on Jeremy’s issue, then left and came back with a face mask and gloves on.  That didn’t seem routine at all, but he continued the exam, looking in Jeremy’s ears and mouth, feeling his belly, listening to his lungs, etc.  He then suggested that it could be influenza, pneumonia, or a urinary tract infection.  He said he wanted Jeremy to go in for some blood work and a suction (tube up the nose to pull out mucus), and that we had to go to the Provo hospital to do this.

I asked him right out, if he was doing this because of the swine flu scare, since it seemed that in the past, they would just do a few random tests, say they don’t know what’s wrong, and then give us antibiotics as a precaution, or to treat a possible ear infection.  He said that he would have done the same thing last year or last month (before the swine flu scare).  Whatever…

We drove down to the Provo Hospital, arriving at 6:00, and I texted my work to tell them I wouldn’t be coming in (I never got a response, so I really hope he got it!), and then we parked outside the south entrance.  We had no idea where we were supposed to go for the lab work, so we just walked in and asked the first employee we found for directions.  He didn’t know for sure where we needed to go, but gave us directions to the main lab, which was through some hallways, out the doors, down the street, and into another building.  We went there, and the lady told us they would do the blood work there, but the suction needed to be done in the main part of the hospital that we just left.  Okay…

Jeremy was very good during the blood work.  I took him in, and held him on my lap, and two ladies did the work; one to draw the blood, and the other to hold his arm still.  This was his first time doing the blood work, and he winced but stayed perfectly still.  What a great boy!  They awarded Jeremy with a rubber duck and stickers for his braveness, and then we went back to the main building and up to the pediatric floor for them to do the suction.  It seemed that nobody knew exactly where we needed to go, so we had a bit of a runaround before meeting Ben, the person who would do the suction.  He took us into a small room, then left explaining he needed to get a robe.  We wondered if Jeremy needed to undress for a simple nasal suction?  But no, it was for Ben, and he put it on, along with gloves and a mask.  He then had Jeremy lay down, wrapped in a blanket to avoid wiggling, and I helped hold his head still.  Ben then stuck a small tube up his nose (probably 4 inches worth) and Jeremy cried!  But, it was fast and Jeremy was still very good through it all.

I couldn’t help but feel sad about how much our brave little boy was, and even though he was more pathetic through the whole ordeal, he did really well.  Since we were out, in Provo, we decided to go to the mall and have dinner at Red Robin (a wait time of an hour for out tiny party of 6), and while we were eating, the doctor called and said Jeremy didn’t have the flu, and his white blood count was normal, so his assumption was that Jeremy has something viral, but the rest of the tests will come back tomorrow.

What a tiring adventure!

Update: Jeremy seems fine Saturday morning.  Go figure.

Tool Chest

I bought Kyle a tool chest for Christmas. I nice black one with lots of drawers and a smaller chest to sit on top. Yes it’s big and we don’t really have many tools but I figured, owning a house over the years we are going to end up collecting tools as we end up with projects to do. And I wanted to get him something useful, not something that was going to become a piece of junk in just a matter of time, or something that was just going to become clutter. Well he FINALLY got it out of the box last night! I’m so excited that it’s set up (I think I’m more excited than he is, or he hides his excitement really well). As I’ve been going throughout my daily routine I’ve been keeping my eye out for all those tools that are ALL over the house, and I’ve been gathering them to the tool chest. (YAY! I love creating order!)

Fish tank epidemic

Well we’ve had some fish in our tank since Easter weekend, but every one of our original fish has died. And we keep making trips to the pet store to exchange them, and those fish have all died. They have just been dying left and right. The only things from our original fish purchase that have survived this whole time, are the frogs. So Kyle and I were starting to think that the frogs were trying to eat the other fish or something and that they were killing everyone else off……

Yesterday I was looking in the tank to see if I could find any of the living fish and I spotted a couple of the red ones, and they had white spots all over them (and I noticed that one of the white fish was dead). So I told Kyle about it and he did a google search and sent me a link to some fish disease that I seriously thought that he already knew what the fish had. (He laughed when I asked him how he knew that that article explained what was going on in our tank.) By the time we cam back home from the bug program last night, five fish had died throughout yesterday. So we decided it was still early enough to go to petsmart and return them, and we decided to take the two remaining living fish with (in a separate container of course). We were able to return the dead fish, and the guy in the fish department took one look at the two remaining living fish and said “you’ve got ‘ich'”. We were so surprised that this guy could tell just by looking at these fish what the problem was, when it has taken us weeks to figure it out!

I just LOVE it when this guy is working when we go to petsmart to get fish. He actually KNOWS what he’s talking about and he’s the FIRST petsmart employee in the fish department that I have EVER had that knows about the fish (and we’ve had a fish tank for years now). He was even able to tell us which fish were male and which are female! He could tell us anything we asked him all because he has had personal experience with fish. HE’S AWESOME! He even let us return the two living fish for a full refund as well (since they were pretty much done for anyways with all those parasites under their skin).

SO we bought some ‘medication’ for our fish tank and decided to not get any new fish at the current time because our fish tank is under quaranteen for the next few weeks. Bummer I know, it looks so empty with no fish in it, and I had to pull our live plants out and treat them separately (the guy at petsmart said that they would just absorb the medication which would make the tank take longer to get over the parasite infestation). So the tank is really empty aside from our rocks and the frogs (this parasite doesn’t affect these frogs so they are safe, thank goodness). Sigh, someday we’ll have fish again.

Kindergarten Bug Program

Ethan was in his first school program tonight. He got to dress up like a bug, and sing bug songs with all the other AM kindergarteners for all the parents. It was so cute. Ethan’s class sang ‘Baby Bumble Bee’, ‘Butterfly Song’, ‘Itsy Bitsy Spider’, ‘Ugly Bug Ball’ and ‘High Hopes’. The other classes sang some other bug songs. Kyle got it all on video (he’s taller than I am and could hold the video camera over more heads than I could 😉 )

CIMG1739

Mean Mommy

Yes, I am a mean mommy. I make my kids clean up their toys before dinner (or at least I try). I make my kids eat food they don’t like. I’m SO mean!!!!

I just don’t want my kids to grow up to be lazy bums that never have to do anything because ‘mommy did it all for them’ growing up. I just WISH I knew the secret to getting them to help out more. I have tried being nice, I have tried making the job fun, I have tried giving treats for cooperative behaviour, I have tried yelling and screaming, and recently I have tried playing ‘cleaning music’ during clean up time. That way they could dance as they clean or sing the working songs (and there is a time limit to clean-up time). So far both positive and negative motivation are just NOT working, and I am getting frustrated. With only 7-9 weeks left of this pregnancy, and Kyle working the two jobs and so is never home, I get worn out really fast. I physically cannot do everything for everyone. It’s just not possible. My kids are old enough to be responsible for certain things. But obviously they don’t think so. Ergh! I just don’t know what to do anymore.